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Hi everyone. I've been looking for a group like this for a while. I knew there had to be one, I knew I couldn't be the only one that feels this way.
I didn't know that there was a term for how I feel, I just thought I had a problem. As many of you have stated, this world is so much into "sex", that we are considered strange or abnormal if we aren't always thinking about sex.
I am 37, living in Florida, married for 15 years with 3 kids, and I have been miserable my whole marriage, because I don't like sex, and my husband is a nympho. We are opposites in every facet of our personalities, values and morals, and I often ask myself why I got married to him in the first place. We fight all the time about sex and parenting, and our kids have psychological problems because of our marital problems.
My situation is so very complicated, and I have become clinically depressed because of it. I long to be free of all of it (no, I'm not suicidal) but my deep sense of responsibiity and obligation to my kids won't let me abandon my current life, even though I feel that it is becuase of this life that they are messed up.
I am intelligent and intellectual, and he is not. I have no friends, and have always had problems at my jobs, because he is so tremendously jealous and suspicious. He thinks that since I don't want sex with him, I must be getting it from someone else. I even wonder if I have hormonal problems causing my low libido. I've always been a minimally affectionate person, not much into cuddling and kissing, especially in public.
I'm just looking for verification that I'm not the only one who feels this way, and support that I'm not "sick" for feeling the way I do. I want and need a friend, so I'm reaching out to this group, since you all seem to feel the way that I do. I need a mind-mate, know what I mean? I would like to start a friendship with someone, man or woman, just for intellectual conversation and such. Email me if you like, my hubby doesn't know about this email. Again, just looking for a friend.
Thanks for listening...it helps just to put this into words.
Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Online Relationships Can Be Great
I live in the MD/DC area and have posted before about liking cerebral stimulation rather than physical. I am eager to meet others who are into cerebral, psychological stimulation. I used to actually visit chatrooms and engaged in online relationships with women that were more meaningful than real life situations. It made me realized that I could be in love with someone I never met physically, and desire someone but only for the psychological and mental stimulation I was receiving. I long to have such a relationship again. The feelings I felt seemed so deep for my online partner that I did want to go further but accepted that online probably worked much better for us. I have even had higher quality relationships with men. I don't feel as pressured, I know I can back away anytime I want. I know a lot of people feel that online relationships are not healthy, or that the people involve are out of touch with reality. That could be true to a degree. But I have to admit I actually felt whole again, and really enjoyed time spent. I decided to back off for a while from my online life cause my offline life needed more tending to, and I was getting bored/burntout. I am thinking about trying it again though. So give me a shout-out if you have had similar experiences or just want to comment on what I've wrote.
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Hi Elizabeth,
I'm a 57 year old lady asexual from Houston, Texas. Glad to meet ya!!!
I know what you mean about online relationships with others. Years ago I was "involved" with a wonderful man from Scotland (VPlaces Chat) and I felt the relationship was one of the most rewarding and fulfilling I had had in many years. The reason being, that we were neither one there for cyber sex (the subject never came up), but for communication, sharing our love of the arts, and poetry....gosh, we composed some really, really good poetry seperately and collectively. We inspired each other....isn't that a great thing to have going for you? Both of us had been married in the past and had children but were living contented lives on our own. Thinking back, he may well have been an asexual too, but just didn't have a monicar to place on his situation and lifestyle.
He had never been to the USA and I had never been to Scotland, so we painted verbal pictures for each other to include not just a superficial descriptive of our homeland, but also included the sounds, smells, and colors of what we absorbed from where we lived. Some would say, ....ah, what a lovely friendship, but to us it was much more. We both felt that we had truly found a soul mate and were grateful for the time and the experience. I miss him, as he passed away several years ago and I felt the loss as profoundly for my beautiful man as much as I would have had we live together and shared years of life. And yes, I loved him with all my heart. So, I get what you are saying. Hope to talk to you more in the future. So glad you have joined the group
I live in the MD/DC area and have posted before about liking cerebral stimulation rather than physical. I am eager to meet others who are into cerebral, psychological stimulation. I used to actually visit chatrooms and engaged in online relationships with women that were more meaningful than real life situations. It made me realized that I could be in love with someone I never met physically, and desire someone but only for the psychological and mental stimulation I was receiving. I long to have such a relationship again. The feelings I felt seemed so deep for my online partner that I did want to go further but accepted that online probably worked much better for us. I have even had higher quality relationships with men. I don't feel as pressured, I know I can back away anytime I want. I know a lot of people feel that online relationships are not healthy, or that the people involve are out of touch with reality. That could be true to a degree. But I have to admit I actually felt whole again, and really enjoyed time spent. I decided to back off for a while from my online life cause my offline life needed more tending to, and I was getting bored/burntout. I am thinking about trying it again though. So give me a shout-out if you have had similar experiences or just want to comment on what I've wrote.
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I am new to this group.
Hi, I am 21 year old male living in a dump people call Georgia (I am really a New Yorker, but I moved to this dump about two years ago). I am nonlibidoist, and to those who go to the asexuality.org (the Aven group), I would like to say that I do not believe in the following definition of a nonlidoist( same as asexual): "A sexual person is someone who does not experience sexual attraction." I think it's more than that. No sexual fantasies, no sexual drive, no sexual attraction, not into romantic relationships, no kissing, no masturbation ("Masturbater aka Solo Sexual"), none of that. I do not believe in bi-asexual or homo-asexual. It does not exist. Anyway, I hope I will be able to meet people here. ARE THERE EVER PEOPLE IN THE CHAT ROOM? THAT'S very important to me.
Hi, I am new here
I can't find my post I wrote two hours ago, so I will post again. Hi, I am a 21 year old male who is nonlibidoist(asexual). I do not believe in bi-asexual or homo-asexual and believe that in order to be completely asexual, one must not have a sexual drive, sexual fantasy, sexual arousal, sexual attraction, no romantic relationships and, especially, must not masturbation ("Masturbator aka Solo Sexual"). Anyone can come here and say he or she is an asexual, but does it neccessarily mean that person is? Anyway, I have noticed that sign with an X on the word sex on homepage. Yeah, I also belive an asexual does not have sex. However, even though some "asexuals" have sex, they still consider themselves asexuals. Doesn't make sense at all. I hope to meet people here. I hope the chat room works.
Thanks
Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Online Relationships Can Be Great
Hi Elizabeth,
I'm a 57 year old lady asexual from Houston, Texas. Glad to meet ya!!!
I know what you mean about online relationships with others. Years ago I was "involved" with a wonderful man from Scotland (VPlaces Chat) and I felt the relationship was one of the most rewarding and fulfilling I had had in many years. The reason being, that we were neither one there for cyber sex (the subject never came up), but for communication, sharing our love of the arts, and poetry....gosh, we composed some really, really good poetry seperately and collectively. We inspired each other....isn't that a great thing to have going for you? Both of us had been married in the past and had children but were living contented lives on our own. Thinking back, he may well have been an asexual too, but just didn't have a monicar to place on his situation and lifestyle.
He had never been to the USA and I had never been to Scotland, so we painted verbal pictures for each other to include not just a superficial descriptive of our homeland, but also included the sounds, smells, and colors of what we absorbed from where we lived. Some would say, ....ah, what a lovely friendship, but to us it was much more. We both felt that we had truly found a soul mate and were grateful for the time and the experience. I miss him, as he passed away several years ago and I felt the loss as profoundly for my beautiful man as much as I would have had we live together and shared years of life. And yes, I loved him with all my heart. So, I get what you are saying. Hope to talk to you more in the future. So glad you have joined the group
Elizabeth Sweet said:I live in the MD/DC area and have posted before about liking cerebral stimulation rather than physical. I am eager to meet others who are into cerebral, psychological stimulation. I used to actually visit chatrooms and engaged in online relationships with women that were more meaningful than real life situations. It made me realized that I could be in love with someone I never met physically, and desire someone but only for the psychological and mental stimulation I was receiving. I long to have such a relationship again. The feelings I felt seemed so deep for my online partner that I did want to go further but accepted that online probably worked much better for us. I have even had higher quality relationships with men. I don't feel as pressured, I know I can back away anytime I want. I know a lot of people feel that online relationships are not healthy, or that the people involve are out of touch with reality. That could be true to a degree. But I have to admit I actually felt whole again, and really enjoyed time spent. I decided to back off for a while from my online life cause my offline life needed more tending to, and I was getting bored/burntout. I am thinking about trying it again though. So give me a shout-out if you have had similar experiences or just want to comment on what I've wrote.
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Thanks for responding to my post jimalee. So you know it can be done too. What is VPlaces Chat, btw?
Liz
Hi Elizabeth,
I'm a 57 year old lady asexual from Houston, Texas. Glad to meet ya!!!
I know what you mean about online relationships with others. Years ago I was "involved" with a wonderful man from Scotland (VPlaces Chat) and I felt the relationship was one of the most rewarding and fulfilling I had had in many years. The reason being, that we were neither one there for cyber sex (the subject never came up), but for communication, sharing our love of the arts, and poetry....gosh, we composed some really, really good poetry seperately and collectively. We inspired each other....isn't that a great thing to have going for you? Both of us had been married in the past and had children but were living contented lives on our own. Thinking back, he may well have been an asexual too, but just didn't have a monicar to place on his situation and lifestyle.
He had never been to the USA and I had never been to Scotland, so we painted verbal pictures for each other to include not just a superficial descriptive of our homeland, but also included the sounds, smells, and colors of what we absorbed from where we lived. Some would say, ....ah, what a lovely friendship, but to us it was much more. We both felt that we had truly found a soul mate and were grateful for the time and the experience. I miss him, as he passed away several years ago and I felt the loss as profoundly for my beautiful man as much as I would have had we live together and shared years of life. And yes, I loved him with all my heart. So, I get what you are saying. Hope to talk to you more in the future. So glad you have joined the group
Elizabeth Sweet said:I live in the MD/DC area and have posted before about liking cerebral stimulation rather than physical. I am eager to meet others who are into cerebral, psychological stimulation. I used to actually visit chatrooms and engaged in online relationships with women that were more meaningful than real life situations. It made me realized that I could be in love with someone I never met physically, and desire someone but only for the psychological and mental stimulation I was receiving. I long to have such a relationship again. The feelings I felt seemed so deep for my online partner that I did want to go further but accepted that online probably worked much better for us. I have even had higher quality relationships with men. I don't feel as pressured, I know I can back away anytime I want. I know a lot of people feel that online relationships are not healthy, or that the people involve are out of touch with reality. That could be true to a degree. But I have to admit I actually felt whole again, and really enjoyed time spent. I decided to back off for a while from my online life cause my offline life needed more tending to, and I was getting bored/burntout. I am thinking about trying it again though. So give me a shout-out if you have had similar experiences or just want to comment on what I've wrote.
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] I think I am old
Hi,
I am 51, and finally trying to be true to myself. I find that I act how I think I should be. I'm married and I hate it. He feels he has certain rights over me, and I am not a normal woman. LOL, nothing normal about me, thank you!
Nowadays, you're as old as you wish to be. With the internet connecting people and letting them grow in different mature and intellectual ways, people become equal to others 20 years younger than them and others 20 years older.
I believe that being a couple requires the obligation of caring deeply. If he wants to do something and you don't, he should care about your feelings.. but you need to let him know. Talk about it. I haven't been in such a relationship with a sexual/asexual conflict, but I imagine that the solution is for each of you to let go a bit. You'll give him a bit of what he wants and he won't ask for much.
Of course, there are "open relationships" in which people can sleep with others but they feel like their true love is still their SO, since they're way more emotionally connected than with the person they just slept with. Yet, these take up a lot of courage, determination and strength so I wouldn't recommend that.
p.s. normal people are boring people.
Hi,
I am 51, and finally trying to be true to myself. I find that I act how I think I should be. I'm married and I hate it. He feels he has certain rights over me, and I am not a normal woman. LOL, nothing normal about me, thank you!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Where to find ?
Hello,
I simply want to tell that it's not easy to find a partner who is asexual. When I tell that I'm not interested in sex most of Women say that it's OK but they simply mean that they simply prefer to have sex only in a while. They are not asexual. I didn't found such a group here in Belgium. Have a nice day. Michael.
Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Looking For That Special Someone
Ok thanks for advice. But I don`t really have even friends except couple of living so far I can`t see the...well I just have to go on..alone (maybe little bit pitiful but I am who I am)
Tiffany Wolfe said:You should not waste your time looking for someone to complete you, feeling complete should come from within YOU!! Take this time that you are alone in life & do some soul searching within yourself. Surround yourself with positive people, do things that fullfill you, & be complete within, before searching for another human to do it for you. Good Luck, eventually, it will all come together.
I'm looking for that special someone to make my life complete. Whether he's a he, she's a she, he wants to be a she, or she wants to be a he........lol Lets face it I HATE BEING ALONE..........:(
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Confusion about asexuality
Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Hi - just dropped in! - Pen Pal??
I went to put my gardening group on daily digest and lo and behold,I arrived here! I'm 53 and I've been celibate for the past 10 yrs. I love men and think their conversatiions are stellar. Maybe I'll get a good penpal from here...........Anybody ever heard of Saskatchhewan, Canada? It's snowing like mad today so I'm reaching out for human contact via the computer Take care all...........Carol
Hello Carol
I read your article and related to so many things, 1. I like gardening although I don't belong to a group. 2. I am also 53. 3. I have been clibate for 23 years. 4. I really enjoy being around men and listening to male talk (clean stuff that is). 5. I would be interested in having a pen-pal. 6. Yes I have heard of Saskatchhewan, (a mouthful). 7. I enjoy human contact via the net not because it is snowing, just because I can be me.
I live in Australia, it is just coming into Autumn at present and is about 85 today. Where I live on the coast in Mid-Northern New South Wales, we rarely see much of Autumn as in the beautiful trees changing colour and loosing their leaves. Or the feeling of cold weather looming in on us. Yes we do have have winter but compared to Canada it is very mild here, probably down to 50 at times.
I came upon this topice whilst doing research for a Course I am doing in Assistant in Nursing. (which is what I am suppose to be doing now.... homework).
So I will fill you in on more later if you are interested in having a female pen-pal from Australia.
Bye for now
Eileen
I went to put my gardening group on daily digest and lo and behold,I arrived here! I'm 53 and I've been celibate for the past 10 yrs. I love men and think their conversatiions are stellar. Maybe I'll get a good penpal from here...........Anybody ever heard of Saskatchhewan, Canada? It's snowing like mad today so I'm reaching out for human contact via the computer Take care all...........Carol
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Confusion about asexuality
Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Confusion about asexuality
Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Confusion about asexuality
Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Re: Confusion about asexuality
You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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[Haven for the Human Amoeba] Re: Confusion about asexuality
I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Please correct me if I'm wrong, as I hate making faulse assumptions about people. And PLEASE don't take offence at what I say now. Are you one of these people who believes that the whole of what we are is our bodies? That our desisions and attitudes are just a series of chemical and elictrical inpulses? I certainly am not, personally. This is my body, yes. But it is not the whole of who I am. -I- do NOT want to EVER engage in intercourse (sorry if that word is offensive to anyone. I do not mean to cause any). My body does not control me. -I- control it's actions (externally if nothing else. Internally my body loves to cause me suffering. But that is another subject all together). -I- am the one who falls 'in live'. NOT my body. ...If that makes any sence. Sorry, I'm not verty litterate in explaining myself.
I am 24, been in 2 very loving relationships, and still never wanted to have the 'i' word with either of them. Love does NOT = sex, as far as I'm concerned. Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that.
Good luck to the both of you. I mean that. :) 6 years?! Wow, you are very patiant. This is clearly something you feel worth the sacrifice. But I understand your frustrations. I'm sorry I can not be of any help.
I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Re: Confusion about asexuality
Please correct me if I'm wrong, as I hate making faulse assumptions about people. And PLEASE don't take offence at what I say now. Are you one of these people who believes that the whole of what we are is our bodies? That our desisions and attitudes are just a series of chemical and elictrical inpulses? I certainly am not, personally. This is my body, yes. But it is not the whole of who I am. -I- do NOT want to EVER engage in intercourse (sorry if that word is offensive to anyone. I do not mean to cause any). My body does not control me. -I- control it's actions (externally if nothing else. Internally my body loves to cause me suffering. But that is another subject all together). -I- am the one who falls 'in live'. NOT my body. ...If that makes any sence. Sorry, I'm not verty litterate in explaining myself.
I am 24, been in 2 very loving relationships, and still never wanted to have the 'i' word with either of them. Love does NOT = sex, as far as I'm concerned. Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that.
Good luck to the both of you. I mean that. :) 6 years?! Wow, you are very patiant. This is clearly something you feel worth the sacrifice. But I understand your frustrations. I'm sorry I can not be of any help.
Verylost Baby said:I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Dear Artcatuk
Yes, you helped. The love that I feel cannot be expressed in my body connecting to his body, now I think I do also not want to make love to him anymore, have sex or whatever , would be to me like a concession, and I do not want that. This love is solid and sad, he is confused too, I can tell.. . I'm 44 his 40, I cannot be one of those people, I'm also loyal, (strange?) , one of you can convince me now that I'm maybe an asexual, morbidly. Tears...
Please correct me if I'm wrong, as I hate making faulse assumptions about people. And PLEASE don't take offence at what I say now. Are you one of these people who believes that the whole of what we are is our bodies? That our desisions and attitudes are just a series of chemical and elictrical inpulses? I certainly am not, personally. This is my body, yes. But it is not the whole of who I am. -I- do NOT want to EVER engage in intercourse (sorry if that word is offensive to anyone. I do not mean to cause any). My body does not control me. -I- control it's actions (externally if nothing else. Internally my body loves to cause me suffering. But that is another subject all together). -I- am the one who falls 'in live'. NOT my body. ...If that makes any sence. Sorry, I'm not verty litterate in explaining myself.
I am 24, been in 2 very loving relationships, and still never wanted to have the 'i' word with either of them. Love does NOT = sex, as far as I'm concerned. Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that.
Good luck to the both of you. I mean that. :) 6 years?! Wow, you are very patiant. This is clearly something you feel worth the sacrifice. But I understand your frustrations. I'm sorry I can not be of any help.
I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Re: Confusion about asexuality
Please correct me if I'm wrong, as I hate making faulse assumptions about people. And PLEASE don't take offence at what I say now. Are you one of these people who believes that the whole of what we are is our bodies? That our desisions and attitudes are just a series of chemical and elictrical inpulses? I certainly am not, personally. This is my body, yes. But it is not the whole of who I am. -I- do NOT want to EVER engage in intercourse (sorry if that word is offensive to anyone. I do not mean to cause any). My body does not control me. -I- control it's actions (externally if nothing else. Internally my body loves to cause me suffering. But that is another subject all together). -I- am the one who falls 'in live'. NOT my body. ...If that makes any sence. Sorry, I'm not verty litterate in explaining myself.
I am 24, been in 2 very loving relationships, and still never wanted to have the 'i' word with either of them. Love does NOT = sex, as far as I'm concerned. Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that.
Good luck to the both of you. I mean that. :) 6 years?! Wow, you are very patiant. This is clearly something you feel worth the sacrifice. But I understand your frustrations. I'm sorry I can not be of any help.
Verylost Baby said:I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Yes I know...Thank you for your words.
"Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that."
Please correct me if I'm wrong, as I hate making faulse assumptions about people. And PLEASE don't take offence at what I say now. Are you one of these people who believes that the whole of what we are is our bodies? That our desisions and attitudes are just a series of chemical and elictrical inpulses? I certainly am not, personally. This is my body, yes. But it is not the whole of who I am. -I- do NOT want to EVER engage in intercourse (sorry if that word is offensive to anyone. I do not mean to cause any). My body does not control me. -I- control it's actions (externally if nothing else. Internally my body loves to cause me suffering. But that is another subject all together). -I- am the one who falls 'in live'. NOT my body. ...If that makes any sence. Sorry, I'm not verty litterate in explaining myself.
I am 24, been in 2 very loving relationships, and still never wanted to have the 'i' word with either of them. Love does NOT = sex, as far as I'm concerned. Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that.
Good luck to the both of you. I mean that. :) 6 years?! Wow, you are very patiant. This is clearly something you feel worth the sacrifice. But I understand your frustrations. I'm sorry I can not be of any help.
I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Re: Confusion about asexuality
You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Now I hear some wise words
You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Re: Confusion about asexuality
Now I hear some wise words
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Now I hear some wise words
You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Re: Confusion about asexuality
I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Re: Confusion about asexuality
Yes I know...Thank you for your words.
"Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that."
artcatuk said:Please correct me if I'm wrong, as I hate making faulse assumptions about people. And PLEASE don't take offence at what I say now. Are you one of these people who believes that the whole of what we are is our bodies? That our desisions and attitudes are just a series of chemical and elictrical inpulses? I certainly am not, personally. This is my body, yes. But it is not the whole of who I am. -I- do NOT want to EVER engage in intercourse (sorry if that word is offensive to anyone. I do not mean to cause any). My body does not control me. -I- control it's actions (externally if nothing else. Internally my body loves to cause me suffering. But that is another subject all together). -I- am the one who falls 'in live'. NOT my body. ...If that makes any sence. Sorry, I'm not verty litterate in explaining myself.
I am 24, been in 2 very loving relationships, and still never wanted to have the 'i' word with either of them. Love does NOT = sex, as far as I'm concerned. Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that.
Good luck to the both of you. I mean that. :) 6 years?! Wow, you are very patiant. This is clearly something you feel worth the sacrifice. But I understand your frustrations. I'm sorry I can not be of any help.
Verylost Baby said:I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Yes I know...Thank you for your words.
"Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that."
Please correct me if I'm wrong, as I hate making faulse assumptions about people. And PLEASE don't take offence at what I say now. Are you one of these people who believes that the whole of what we are is our bodies? That our desisions and attitudes are just a series of chemical and elictrical inpulses? I certainly am not, personally. This is my body, yes. But it is not the whole of who I am. -I- do NOT want to EVER engage in intercourse (sorry if that word is offensive to anyone. I do not mean to cause any). My body does not control me. -I- control it's actions (externally if nothing else. Internally my body loves to cause me suffering. But that is another subject all together). -I- am the one who falls 'in live'. NOT my body. ...If that makes any sence. Sorry, I'm not verty litterate in explaining myself.
I am 24, been in 2 very loving relationships, and still never wanted to have the 'i' word with either of them. Love does NOT = sex, as far as I'm concerned. Just because the one you love does not want to have sex with you does NOT mean that they don't love you with all that they are. But I'm sure you already know that.
Good luck to the both of you. I mean that. :) 6 years?! Wow, you are very patiant. This is clearly something you feel worth the sacrifice. But I understand your frustrations. I'm sorry I can not be of any help.
I do love someone that is different than me, that is sick and does not know it.
This whole asexual thing is ok, can be, for you people who are happy being who you are, without having fluids exchanges of any sort with another human being, without making others suffers because of your choice and so on...
Live and let the others live...
I'm here not to make a point, I'm here because, this perverted idea is my reality, every day, I wait for a change in our relationship, and no way out... Everything else is fine, we manage our lives in such a way that I could not ask for anybody else but him, but why has to be without sex???
I do just think that many of you, a majority, is not asexual per se, there is no such a thing, we were genetically made to procriate and mate, if our psyches says NO, please does not blame nature, but society...
I do accept asexual people, I do not accept this concept that it is natural, nature way (of what????) some people are just diferent ....Many of you are not happy, many like the 23yrs old girl can be convinced that she was born like that (lol) when something could be wrong with her in another level...
Asexuality is not normal or natural. (PERIOD)
artcatuk said:You are just afraid of anyone who is different to you. Many of us have had our hormones checked, and the results have come back 'normal'. Yet we still desire to NOT have sex. It is just the way we are. Try opening your mind to the possability that other people are DIFFERENT to you, and to eachother. I am perfectly happy being asexual. IF it is caused by some imbalance in MY hormone levels, I do not wish to have them 'corrected'. The thought of myself engaging in such an act sickens me. But I do not in any way look down on my sexual friends. They are all very prescious to me. They understand and accept me for who I am, and never try to change me.
Well...that's my 'two cents'. I hope you and your partner can come to some understanding.
*Edit - Had recent blood-test results back. All normal.*
Verylost Baby said:People sometimes cannot face their own demons...Also hormonal deficiencies can cause lost of libido, as well as hypertension, and many other ailments. All sickness.
Kate Haws said:Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Online Relationships Can Be Great
Thanks for responding to my post jimalee. So you know it can be done too. What is VPlaces Chat, btw?
Liz
jimalee_shick said:Hi Elizabeth,
I'm a 57 year old lady asexual from Houston, Texas. Glad to meet ya!!!
I know what you mean about online relationships with others. Years ago I was "involved" with a wonderful man from Scotland (VPlaces Chat) and I felt the relationship was one of the most rewarding and fulfilling I had had in many years. The reason being, that we were neither one there for cyber sex (the subject never came up), but for communication, sharing our love of the arts, and poetry....gosh, we composed some really, really good poetry seperately and collectively. We inspired each other....isn't that a great thing to have going for you? Both of us had been married in the past and had children but were living contented lives on our own. Thinking back, he may well have been an asexual too, but just didn't have a monicar to place on his situation and lifestyle.
He had never been to the USA and I had never been to Scotland, so we painted verbal pictures for each other to include not just a superficial descriptive of our homeland, but also included the sounds, smells, and colors of what we absorbed from where we lived. Some would say, ....ah, what a lovely friendship, but to us it was much more. We both felt that we had truly found a soul mate and were grateful for the time and the experience. I miss him, as he passed away several years ago and I felt the loss as profoundly for my beautiful man as much as I would have had we live together and shared years of life. And yes, I loved him with all my heart. So, I get what you are saying. Hope to talk to you more in the future. So glad you have joined the group
Elizabeth Sweet said:I live in the MD/DC area and have posted before about liking cerebral stimulation rather than physical. I am eager to meet others who are into cerebral, psychological stimulation. I used to actually visit chatrooms and engaged in online relationships with women that were more meaningful than real life situations. It made me realized that I could be in love with someone I never met physically, and desire someone but only for the psychological and mental stimulation I was receiving. I long to have such a relationship again. The feelings I felt seemed so deep for my online partner that I did want to go further but accepted that online probably worked much better for us. I have even had higher quality relationships with men. I don't feel as pressured, I know I can back away anytime I want. I know a lot of people feel that online relationships are not healthy, or that the people involve are out of touch with reality. That could be true to a degree. But I have to admit I actually felt whole again, and really enjoyed time spent. I decided to back off for a while from my online life cause my offline life needed more tending to, and I was getting bored/burntout. I am thinking about trying it again though. So give me a shout-out if you have had similar experiences or just want to comment on what I've wrote.
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Hey Liz, You are more than welcome for the post. VPChat was a really cool site years ago which was free and had different rooms with avitars where you could meet up with folks of your own age group and chat. Unfortunately, something happened to the demographics and the ownership of the site and though I belive it still exists, it now costs to belong and it sucks....hahahaha. Sometimes you just have to accept that "there is a time and a season for all things, and move on to bigger and better things. Hope to talk to you again. Sorry it took me so long to get back to you on the question, I don't have a chance to play on the computer as often as I would like to. Happy day to ya!!
Jimi
Thanks for responding to my post jimalee. So you know it can be done too. What is VPlaces Chat, btw?
Liz
jimalee_shick said:Hi Elizabeth,
I'm a 57 year old lady asexual from Houston, Texas. Glad to meet ya!!!
I know what you mean about online relationships with others. Years ago I was "involved" with a wonderful man from Scotland (VPlaces Chat) and I felt the relationship was one of the most rewarding and fulfilling I had had in many years. The reason being, that we were neither one there for cyber sex (the subject never came up), but for communication, sharing our love of the arts, and poetry....gosh, we composed some really, really good poetry seperately and collectively. We inspired each other....isn't that a great thing to have going for you? Both of us had been married in the past and had children but were living contented lives on our own. Thinking back, he may well have been an asexual too, but just didn't have a monicar to place on his situation and lifestyle.
He had never been to the USA and I had never been to Scotland, so we painted verbal pictures for each other to include not just a superficial descriptive of our homeland, but also included the sounds, smells, and colors of what we absorbed from where we lived. Some would say, ....ah, what a lovely friendship, but to us it was much more. We both felt that we had truly found a soul mate and were grateful for the time and the experience. I miss him, as he passed away several years ago and I felt the loss as profoundly for my beautiful man as much as I would have had we live together and shared years of life. And yes, I loved him with all my heart. So, I get what you are saying. Hope to talk to you more in the future. So glad you have joined the group
Elizabeth Sweet said:I live in the MD/DC area and have posted before about liking cerebral stimulation rather than physical. I am eager to meet others who are into cerebral, psychological stimulation. I used to actually visit chatrooms and engaged in online relationships with women that were more meaningful than real life situations. It made me realized that I could be in love with someone I never met physically, and desire someone but only for the psychological and mental stimulation I was receiving. I long to have such a relationship again. The feelings I felt seemed so deep for my online partner that I did want to go further but accepted that online probably worked much better for us. I have even had higher quality relationships with men. I don't feel as pressured, I know I can back away anytime I want. I know a lot of people feel that online relationships are not healthy, or that the people involve are out of touch with reality. That could be true to a degree. But I have to admit I actually felt whole again, and really enjoyed time spent. I decided to back off for a while from my online life cause my offline life needed more tending to, and I was getting bored/burntout. I am thinking about trying it again though. So give me a shout-out if you have had similar experiences or just want to comment on what I've wrote.
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Confusion about asexuality
Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
I think it's more likely that it's one of several variations in human sexuality. Its usefulness is that there are adults free to help society with tasks that childrearers might be too busy to do.
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Re: [Haven for the Human Amoeba] Confusion about asexuality
Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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I must agree with Kate....asexuality is not a dysfunction nor is it a sickness.....we aren't deprived of anything....we just don't have the needs of the "normal" (what is normal) majority. Does that make me dysfunctional????? I don't think so. I am content, I have everything in life that I desire, and I am free to concentrate on the important things of life....no restless nights here wondering what's wrong with me, where's my man, does he love me, blah, blah, blah. I also agree if you have the need for sexual interaction, perhaps the relationship that you are in in not a healthy one for you....we can love someone but that doesn't necessarily mean that we have to screw up our lives being with them....or there lives. Be true to yourself Very Lost Baby.
--- In [email protected], Kate Haws
Asexuality is not sickness. I don`t like that idea. You should maybe change partner if the relationship is not enough for you. In fact I think myself that it is nature`s way to decrease human amount
Verylost Baby said:Hi Anell:
I think we are in a reversal paralell, I have this assexual partner for 16 yrs , that seems to be happy being like that and making my life miserable for so many years... I'm brazilian and really confused about how to escape of this cage that I found myself in, since I do love him in so many ways... we do not have sex for the last 6 years, and I hate this assexual concept , just think that people who doesn't know themselves , escape to this "theory". We all have libido, if it does not manifest it is a disfunction of some kind... I was very sexual active before we met, now I think I'm also sick, not just him.
anell_olivia said:Well, I am 23 yrs old, and I think that I am asexual. I feel no sexual desire toward no one. Neither do I feel attraction toward any sex (male/female). I have no desire of getting married in the future. I just dream of finding a guy best friend, who have my same condition and share as couples, but without sex, or those romanticism that could have....I am very confuse still, about this, but my desire doesn't have anything to do with sex, but to have a partner to share with...I am Spanish, Dominican, living in NJ haft of my life in this country actually, and I would accept any suggestion about asexuality because I am still about it...think u all...!
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