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these idiots that are posting porn sites are really getting out of hand. I think it's possible to report them to yahoo to get them removed. if I have time today or tomorrow, I think I just might do so.

Dear Friends, I realize I may be asexual, because I do not masturbate, and have no compulsion to masturbate.

I identify as "lesbian" but my last girlfriend dropped me due to my lack of interest in sex. Every girlfriend I had was much more interested in sex than I was.

I am considering starting an asexual support group.

Even though I may be asexual, I am seeking connection with a committed life partner, probably preferably female who is affectionate and loving, but not into the sex act.

Also, cancer surgery 2 years ago that resulted in a total hysterectomy "clean out" including a resection of my vagina, has encouraged me in my celibacy. Before my last brief relationship of 2 weeks (after 2 months dating, with her pushing for sex) I was celibate for 6 years.

I would appreciate any comments anyone may make.

Thank you for giving me feedback.

Yours, Beth

<< I identify as "lesbian" but my last girlfriend dropped me due to my lack of interest in sex. Every girlfriend I had was much more interested in sex than I was. >>

It's such a sad occurance. I'll probably never find a life partner because not only am I not interested in sex, I'm a very ugly female.

It's such a sad occurance. I'll probably never find a life partner because not only am I not interested in sex, I'm a very ugly female. Same here. Maybe we're asexual out of an attitude of "fuck it, any effort towards a sexual relationship is futile"? That's probably what many think anyway. Cynically, --Nothing

< If you are not looking for a sexual relationship, I presume this one who is supposed to live with you wouldn't demand things like physical attractiveness, specially if this one is a woman... >>

I personally think physical attraction is pointless. However, you can want a good-looking partner just for the sake of having something pleasant to wake up to, even if there's no sex involved.

<< Having someone pleasant to wake up to has nothing to do with looks, either. You could wake up to the most physically beautiful person, but if that person was not kind, loving, interesting, and so on, then is that really attractiveness? On the other hand, you might wake up next to a so-called "ugly" person and that person might be kind, loving, interesting, etc., and therefore very attractive ... attractiveness, at least to me, is so much more than physical beauty. >>

Unfortunately, to some people it doesn't matter if you're kind, loving, or interesting, unless you look good.

Grace... Having someone pleasant to wake up to has nothing to do with looks, either. You could wake up to the most physically beautiful person, but if that person was not kind, loving, interesting, and so on, then is that really attractiveness? On the other hand, you might wake up next to a so-called "ugly" person and that person might be kind, loving, interesting, etc., and therefore very attractive ... attractiveness, at least to me, is so much more than physical beauty.

Amy

Unfortunately, to some people it doesn't matter if you're kind, loving, or interesting, unless you look good.

Yeah, generally I have never hung around those people, we wouldn't get along anyway.

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Pessimisticgrace said, "Unfortunately, to some people it doesn't matter if you're kind, loving, or interesting, unless you look good."

Such people are superficial, Grace...you don't need them, trust me.

"Can a true friend ever be anything less than beautiful?"

Amy

<< If finding the people who are sympathetic with you pretty is the normal situation, then saying "I want my life-partner to be pretty, and I don't want sex" isn't so absurd as it may seem, since finding this partner pretty is just a consequence of loving him&#92;her.

I understand that. I was just saying that someone people won't consider loving you unless you're beautiful. Thus my singleness. :(.

< OK, let's take a closer look at what you said. You said "some" people, not "all" people, so there is hope. And, I reiterate, someone who "loves" someone just because they're "beautiful" is probably rather shallow and superficial. Better find people who genuinely like you for your character...it's more satisfying, and lasts longer.

Apparently the nice people are evading me. Not only am I asexual, but I'm an asexual lesbian who's rather physically unattractive. That's a triple whammy. :(

<< - The first situation is true... - - I would make plans to get out of the place, city, country...>>

^^ Unfortunately I'm too young and don't have the money to do so. But it's not just my city, it's everyone I ever speak to online outside of this group.

Grace wrote:

"I was just saying that someone people won't consider loving you unless you're beautiful. Thus my singleness. :(."

OK, let's take a closer look at what you said. You said "some" people, not "all" people, so there is hope. And, I reiterate, someone who "loves" someone just because they're "beautiful" is probably rather shallow and superficial. Better find people who genuinely like you for your character...it's more satisfying, and lasts longer.

A.

p.s. If we keep at you, maybe you'll change your handle to "graceoptimistic"! :o)

You seriously have to stop feeling sorry for yourself...try to concentrate more on what you have, rather than what you don't. Just my two cents.

Amy

<< You seriously have to stop feeling sorry for yourself...try to concentrate more on what you have, rather than what you don't. Just my two cents.

^^ Er, I'm sorry I brought it up. It was just a comment, didn't really mean to start a discussion or anything. Personally, I may have more than starving people in Africa, but that doesn't magically make me happy or anything. I'm a pessimist anyway. Don't worry, I'll cut down on my comments and make sure they don't spark a response or anything...

Rachel

Rachel, don't feel like you have to stop commenting...the discussion is interesting.

Oh, and by the way, I remember how hated it when my mother used to tell me to think of the starving people in Africa (or whatever) when I was so miserable I could hardly get from one day to the next....so please don't take my comment that way! I hope you work things out...

A.

Hi Everyone,

My name is Nom DePlume (my web nick anyway). I am a 36 year old non- sexual female. I am a freelance writer and web designer. I came across this list because I wanted to hear what other people had to say about their non-sexual identity.

Anyway sorry if this note is short but I am very happy to be here and I hope to hear from you all.

Nom

<< Hmmm...I wonder what standards of beauty and love we are all talking about. If we are basing what we think is physically attractive and unattractive by what we see in magazines, then i think we will be misinformed. I personally am not a model, but do find that i love my eyes, hair, lips and the fact that i just got my nose pierced(bizzare i know. What i find "physically attractive" in a person and what my friend find finds "physically attractive" are two different things entirely. >>

I'm mostly talking about figure. I've been told I have a pretty face, but because of my weight I'm disqualified.

<< Again, i find flawed reasoning in that. Granted, the magazine world may say "be small, be thin, be beautiful all the time" but that is not how the world works. So your weight disqualifys you from what? >>

Even being spoken to. Respect. Kindness. Courtesy. And ever going farther with friends because my figure makes me unattractive to them.

<< I too am overweight but can't see how it disqualifies me for life>>

Perhaps it's different when you get older, then. I get rejected when I approach people, or when I send pictures. People constantly make fat jokes around me, and I get looked at disapprovingly and pointed at when I'm near other people.

Any time I'm interested in someone, they don't think I'm thin enough for them. Or they want sex and I don't so it doesn't work.